Monthly Archives: February 2018

How To Support Our Kids After A School Shooting

Father Son Talk about Shooting

In the wake of yesterday’s school shooting, my heart breaks for the victims and their families of the Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School in Florida, the most recent victims of gun violence.  Like many of you, I find myself drawn to the constant news updates online, even as someone who routinely avoids the daily news.  As I continue to try to process this horrific act, my thoughts naturally shift toward my own children, who are elementary school-age.  This is sadly one of many school shootings in their lifetime.   As many experts have said, it’s wishful thinking that our children don’t know that these events occur.  We live in a digital age which allows us to go online and watch live feeds of events AS THEY HAPPEN.  Even if your children are not on social media or are not tech savvy, their friends and friend’s parents likely are and will certainly be talking about it. While we try to shield our kids from the media as much as possible, this event is likely to be the buzz of bus rides and lunchrooms all over the country.  I wonder how much my own kids will hear.   Continue reading